NORMAL IS NO LONGER ‘NORMAL’


Yesterday I was talking with my friend from Tunisia when my mom caled me, we’ve discuss about her life now, She told me that she is and she is in the past is totally different person… I’ve got tickle when she said so, how can she assume about her life in this range..

We’ve been friend for 2 years till now, but when I saw her, it  feel the same as i’ve known her before. I know, maybe a bit different in way she dressup..lol (im not mention your name babe) our discussion not show up for whole part, I pick point the part that i feel i should tell.

she is not muslim actually, but it doesn’t matter, friend doesn’t mean we have to seperated or making irrational distance right?She close to me so,we can talk about anything,even a private life..

I was curious what does she mean, I kinda people who doesn’t really like to blabbering,  I asked her direcly about this stuff,

Our point of view is totally different way..you know what I mean, our age isn’t problem, she is older than me but kinda trusting me and actually teach me how am I suppose to do when this situation come to me sometimes,and ( I hope not…)

when people wanting you to be ‘girl/boy friends’ in her point, you have to show something to make you relax or comfort with each other, ( I agree with this,but not for the first sentences) ..I actually didn’t understand what does she mean first, but I’ve got the point, I quickly hear the point that she want to drag in, before I have a chance to intrupted her , She talked about the Tunisian guys she know..It’s a common way of them to show off, (you know- what kind of ‘show off’ I mean)is like normal for them.. like to brag something from yourself or your family wealth is a must to get high class/ level closer to you, not just that point, brag about your private life is also ‘normal’ –( i dunno how to say it in normal way but it kinnda serious now) first I think it same with any indonesian people i’ve ever known, but not that much, one is un-NORMAL... is because if you said that  you like someone u should show them direcly not just kissing or hugging ( u know what i mean) but is that really normal for u to showing love to someone.. I don’t want to force her about the detail so I refuse to talking about that because she talking more and more about the detail, I don’t think that she want to hide something, I just relize that, Ah, I see… our culture is bit different,and OH NO.. it’s totally different.. I relize that, but normal way she tought is un-normal step i found, about the discussion that she drag is totally unreasonable for me to belive .

Yes, i’ve waching many dramas about their life but I think becuase it’s just a film maybe it just exaggerated as usual drama.. but drama is no longer drama if she said so.. I direcly know what she tought…real..ah.. am I too naive to think that is un-normal?

oh actually I’m too naive,saying that people there is not fine using their body to be brag about (you know)
I know, I live in situation to think that should be prohibit not just because my title as a muslim.. but if I think about it again I thinks it disgusting to doing such a thing just to show that you love someone..
our discussion more fun after she talking about everything from her..
ah.. we are different.. but I still respect her, coz she gave me also lot of thought


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